Here’s a short video I made that has some basic but important advice for moms when their kid comes out.
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The video covers the two most important things that we need to do when our kids come out.
What I share here is common sense but in the midst of the moment everything can seem chaotic and confusing.
So … in this video I just go over the basics with the hope of helping moms be able to pause, take a breath and do these two simple things which can help them as they start this new journey.
The basics I include in the video are:
1. TAKE CARE OF YOUR KID
a. Let them know you love them unconditionally
b. Show support by asking about their journey and assuring them you are going to support them going forward.
2. TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF
a. Find supportive community in order to help you deal with your own feelings, have access to support and encouragement for yourself and be in community with people you can open up to and ask questions.
b. Get educated and informed. Part of taking care of yourself includes getting educated and informed as it will relieve a lot of negative feelings for both you and your kid.