Serendipitydodah for Moms is a private Facebook group for moms of lgbtq kids. This series will address common questions that often get asked by members of the group. For more information about the group email firstname.lastname@example.org
There are some common questions that we hear over and over from moms of lgbtq kids and one of those questions goes like this:
What do all the letters mean in the longer lgbt acronyms and which acronym should I use?
To answer the first part of the question here are some of the longer acronyms and what they represent:
LGBTIQCAPGNGFNBA – Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Intersex, Queer, Curious, Asexual, Pansexual, Gender-non-conforming, Gender-Fluid, Non-binary, and Androgynous
LGGBDTTTIQQAAPP – stands for: Lesbian, Gay, Genderqueer, Bisexual, Demisexual, Transgender, Transsexual, Twospirit, Intersex, Queer, Questioning, Asexual, Allies, Pansexual and Polyamorous
LGBTQQIP2SAA – Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Questioning, Intersex, Pansexual, Two-Spirit, Asexual, Allies
Which acronym should you use?
That’s a harder question to answer.
There isn’t one acronym that has been designated as “the best,” but, I do think it is important for us to strive to be inclusive.
One way to be inclusive is to add more letters to the lgbt acronym but that isn’t the only way.
Presently I’m using LGBTQ and plan to use it until something shorter or something that rolls more easily off of the tongue takes over. Queer is becoming widely known as an umbrella term that includes all sexual orientations and gender identities, therefore, the LGBTQ acronym is typically seen as inclusive
BUT, I still feel like there is something better on the horizon.
Here are some examples of some of ideas that are circulating:
MOGAI – Marginalized Orientations, Gender identities, And Intersex
GSD – gender and sexual diversity
GSM – gender and sexual minorities
Many think that either GSD or GSM will end up being the primary acronym to replace the longer acronyms, if for no other reason than it is becoming increasingly difficult to say the longer acronym out loud when you are speaking on the subject.
But, there are others who think we should give up all the letters and just go with the word “Queer”
Those who are advocating for “Queer” point out that the word is inclusive of everyone in the lgbt community and doesn’t highlight just a few. They think as the community continues to strive to recognize and validate ALL genders and orientations we desperately need a word that reflects the community’s diverse membership.
I actually like the the idea of using “Queer” instead of acronyms and the only reason I am still avoiding it is because I have several LGBTQ friends over 40 who still cringe every time they hear the word.
Serendipitydodah for Moms is a private Facebook group for moms of lgbtq kids. Our official motto is “We Are Better Together” and our nickname is “Mama Bears”
The group is private so only members can see who is in the group and what is posted in the group. It was started in June 2014 and as of November 2018 has more than 3,700 members. For more info about the private facebook group email email@example.com